giving her too much advice

i came up wih this coz enough was enough. im more mature and older now so i see things differently but i still think most of this is true. 

This has never worked in the history of man kind: GIVING HER ADVICE OR LISTENING TO HER RATTLE OFF ABOUT HER EX OR CURRENT BOYFRIEND or father for that matter. She will never think of you as an actual dude if you don't stop that shit immediately. Let her cry to her girlfriends-NOT YOU!!! If you sit there and listen to that shit it would be like slowly becoming a woman in her eyes. IT DOESN'T WORK!!! Be the guy she's crying about +note:i now find that satement kinda rather...+, not the guy she's crying too!!! If you feel the urge to get into it, YOU MUST RESIST. Shoulders to cry on are the guys GIRLS USE until they find that guy they will actually get with. Don't be that shoulder!!

DONT GET ME WRONG ONCE IN A WHILE MAYBE (I DO SO) BUT NOT ALWAYS

my first thought

this was a note i posted on facebook which led to me thinking of publishing my thoughts

THE THOUGHTS OF A PREDICATE HUSTLER
                 TODAY I WAS LOOKING AT (WELL RATHER MORE LIKE,”STARING” AT) A  SKETCEDD PORTRAIT THAT MY FATHER (M.H.S.R.I.P) HAD OF MY MOTHER (M.H.S.R.I.P), AND I WAS LOOKING AT HER SMILE, THAT SMILE, AND IT REMINDED ME OF HOW MANY TIMES I SAW THAT SMILE, WHEN SHE’LL BE TELLING ME HOW MUCH SHE LOVED HER CHILDREN AND HOW SHE ONLY WANTED THE BEST FOR US AND THAT SHE SAW IN US HOW MUCH WE COULD EXCEL.
WELL THAT BROUGHT BACK THE MEMORY OF THE LAST TIME I SAW HER AND AS SHE LAY SO PEACEFUL IN HER COMATOSE STATE MY AUNTS AND OTHER OLDER FAMILY MEMBERS ENCOURAGED ME TO SAY SOMETHING NICE TO HER AS SHE WAS ABLE TO UNDERSTAND AND HEAR WHAT I SAID.*SIDE TRACK A BIT* NOW NORMALLY, OR AS HOLLYWOOD WOULD TRY TO CONVINCE US, THIS WOULD BE A LONG SPEECH ABOUT HOW MUCH I LOVE HER AND   HOW MUCH SHE MEANS TO US (ME).
GUESS WHAT DUMB CRAP CAME OUT OF MY MOUTH…….. “TODAY I GOT A 100% IN A PHYSICS TEST”.
WELL, HERE IS THE THOUGHT OF THE WEEK
THOUGHTS OF A PREDICATE HUSTLER: I KNOW ITS VERY HARD TO GET EMOTIONAL WITH OUR LOVED ONES, ESPECIALLY  WHEN WE HIT OUR TEENS, BUT BELIVE ME SAY WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY TO THE PEOPLE YOU CARE ABOUT WHILST YOU STILL HAVE A  CHANCE
“LIFE IS A JOURNEY YOU CAN ONLY TAKE ONCE”